Let’s talk about hair extensions


If you’ve ever wondered about hair extensions today is your lucky day! Katie and I are teaming up today to share all about our experiences with fake hair (well, it’s real hair—just not OUR real hair). We realize hair extensions are not for everyone. I chose to get my first pair when I was growing my hair out five years ago. I had a great experience with them as they helped me bridge the gap while I was growing my hair. My hair grows very slowly. It’s taken my seven years to get the length that I have now.
Extensions before+after

The very first time I tried hair extensions I tried the glue on kind. My friend, Vanessa, did them for me at home. This was not a good experience. Showering with fake hair glued to my scalp kinda grossed me out. They did not stay adhered for very long. Within a week I pulled them out (ouch!) and began searching for other options.

Next, I tried clips (pictured above). My clip on extensions were a much better experience! Because they clip on and off I never had to shower with them or wear them to bed (SO. MUCH. BETTER.) My first pair lasted for a long time. Since I had shoulder length hair at that time I had my extensions layered to look more natural. During this phase my hair looked more natural in curls than straight. I wore it in low ponytails and pigtails often and I liked how they looked with hats.
Extensions before+after

These photos are from last year. (ish?) In the first photo you can see how long my hair was without extensions. It was pretty long at this point but I still wanted a little extra length. This time I had my extensions dyed and cut by my stylist. I loved them, but some time last year I decided that my hair was already long enough, and I really didn’t need them anymore.

Q + A Time:

How/where did you get your first pair of extensions?

Elsie: I bought my first extensions at Sally’s. I bought %100 human hair in the closest match I could find to my current hair color (just never darker). I have always dyed my hair and my extensions to match. This, obviously, works best if you don’t change your hair color often. I have sewn in my own clips in the past. It’s easy and saves a little money. You can also buy them with the clips already attached.

Katie: Ebay. I feel kind of weird saying that I buy my hair off of Ebay, but if you know what you are looking for, it’s a really affordable place to get hair extensions. I search for “human hair extensions” in a color that matches my natural hair color (dark blonde).

What kind of extensions do you use?

Elsie: I have only had good experiences with clip in extensions, so that’s what I recommend. You can buy them from a lot of places, but I always recommend having your stylist dye and cut them with your hair to get the most natural look possible!

Katie: I also use clip-in extensions. My dear friend/hairstylist recommended the clip-in extensions, and I trust her so that’s what I use.

How do you get the color to match?

Elsie: I always take my new extensions to my stylist and have them dye them along with my hair.

Katie: Buying extensions in my natural hair color and having my stylist color them helps ensure that the extensions are almost the perfect matching shade of red. I once tried buying a set that looked close to my red and when they arrived they were completely different and not at all wearable. Now I always use this process.

How do you care for your extensions?

Elsie: Extensions can get heat damage, just like natural hair. Because of this it’s important to not overstyle them and to always use a heat protection spray. I wore mine curly and straight. I would usually curl or straighten them before putting them on. When they were straight I didn’t have to style them every time I wore them. I would just quickly comb them before putting them on.

Katie: Because red changes drastically over the course of a month, I typically wash and condition them once a week so they stay close to my most current red. I use a special shampoo and conditioner for color treated hair and let them air dry.

Random tips and tricks:

Elsie: Unless your hair is platinum blonde or jet black you probably will need to dye your extensions. Color matching is nearly impossible when you are shopping online or at a local shop with limited choices. As your hair grows out you may need to replace your extensions of get them re-trimmed to look natural with your longer hair.

I highly recommend working with your stylist, even with clip on extensions. They will be able to give you advice and help make your extensions look more natural, which is always the goal. If you choose to do them at home I recommend using an all over hair color on both your natural hair and extensions and having them cut when they are clipped on with your hair.

Katie: If you are buying extensions (especially online), make sure you are getting “real” (human) hair. Synthetic extensions will melt if you try to curl or straighten them!

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Layering Hair Extensions
Here is an example of how clip on extensions look before you put them on. The pieces in the middle can be wider, and the pieces on the sides should be about 1-2 inches across. This photo also represents how the extensions will look once they are clipped onto your head. You will clip them on the bottom of your scalp, under your hair.

Depending on how thick your hair is you may need more extensions. The thicker your natural hair is, the more fake hair you will need.

Here is an example of how to put them on:
How To Put Hair Extensions In
Make sure that the longer pieces are attached flush to your head, without too much of a gap. Try to attach them as low on your scalp as you can. This will help them to stay hidden and also to appear longer under your real hair. 🙂

Let us know if you have any other questions about extensions! There is some trial and error to DIYing your perfect pair, but we hope that this information gives you a good starting point if you are considering investing in a pair! xoxo.